“And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses” (Mark 11:25).
This verse seems to say that if we don’t forgive others, we will not be forgiven by God.
Sometimes I don’t realize that I’m holding something against someone. At other times, I enjoy holding something against others because I think they deserve it.
In addition to the above challenges, it is not clear how to practically apply forgiveness to those who have hurt us but do not acknowledge their wrong. Are we obligated to forgive them? If yes, are we obligated to tell them that we forgive them? Are we obligated to hang around them as if they didn’t offend us?
I know the Lord’s heart is for forgiveness, so I should shape my heart toward forgiveness, too. I also know that the Lord will mete out justice, so no one is simply off the hook. How can I build up trust in the Lord to manage those who have hurt me?
Father, please grow my heart to be more like yours. Help me to excel in forgiveness. Please help me to grow in my trust in you for the more difficult cases. Amen.


