“And Herodias had a grudge against him and wanted to put him to death. But she could not, for Herod feared John, knowing that he was a righteous and holy man, and he kept him safe. When he heard him, he was greatly perplexed, and yet he heard him gladly” (Mark 6:19-20).
And the king was exceedingly sorry, but because of his oaths and his guests, he did not want to break his word to her” (Mark 6:26).
This story is so interesting (and instructional) to me. John the Baptist had rebuked Herod for taking his brother’s wife. While Herod didn’t like the rebuke, he respected John as a righteous and holy man. Herod’s wife didn’t share the same respect for John and figured out a way to trap Herod into killing John. Although Herod kept his word to execute John, he felt bad for doing so.
Here is what I mean by instructional. I often fear the fallout if I suggest that someone is a sinner, especially if a specific sin is the topic of discussion. I see that John was both able to identify sin AND maintain the relationship with Herod. So much so that Herod felt bad for executing John.
What I learn from this story is that we can both identify sin and maintain relationships. I’m not sure how to do that yet, and I know that not everyone will respect the person pointing out their sin. I want to get better at this.
Father, help me always be faithful to you regardless of the outcome. Please help me to do this in humility. Amen.





