Proverbs 24:1

“Be not envious of evil men,

    nor desire to be with them,

for their hearts devise violence,

    and their lips talk of trouble”

Proverbs 24:1 ESV

This proverb aims directly for the heart. Envy is a sinful desire for something that another has. That something may be a status or a possession or an ability. But what is it that we are not to be envious of? The evil person. The reason? Because “their hearts devise violence and their lips talk of trouble.”

This seems pretty straight forward. Proverbs 22:5 warns us that “thorns and snares are in the way of the crooked.” Again, pretty straight forward. So, if the warnings (e.g., 24:1 and 22:5) about what await us on the evil path are so straight forward (i.e., clear or easy to understand) why would we be drawn to the evil person?

Throughout the book of Proverbs the choice is wisdom or folly, which is a matter of the heart. The prophet Jeremiah (17:9) warns us about our hearts, “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?” Proverbs 3:5 directs us toward the Lord, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” Trusting in ourselves is folly. Trusting in the Lord is wisdom.

Which path will you choose today?

To My Students: A Gentle Reminder

The typical hubris of a college student may not be more evident than when completing course evaluations. An example of this is a criticism that says something like, “I don’t like [a specific assignment] and it is a waste of time that could be better spent doing [a type of assignment I prefer].” Because course evaluations are anonymous, professors have no way of interacting with the student to better understand their issue(s), or to help the student better understand the teacher’s process in the classroom.

A few questions, might help my students understand my process.

A. Do you have any idea of the purpose of that assignment you think is a waste of time? Likely, you don’t because you never asked for an appointment to discuss the pros/cons of such an assignment. Understanding the purpose of an unpleasant task may give it a measure of meaning, and thus make it more tolerable. For my part, perhaps I can help by explaining better the purpose of each of the assignments in future classes.

B. Have you considered that a variety of assignment types are offered to connect with a variety of learning styles/preferences? I often note things that I don’t particularly enjoy without giving consideration of how that thing affects others. Are you like me?

C. Have you considered that the professor may know just a bit more about the process, and that practicing patience may reveal a positive value from the assignment? I’ve noticed in both my kids and my students an immediate negative reaction to assignments/tasks they don’t like for whatever reason. I’ve also noticed that very often the immediate negative reaction prevents them 1) from recognizing that I know more about the process, and 2) from realizing the value of the process.

All of this reminds me of Peter’s interaction with Jesus at the last supper and the subsequent walk to the Garden of Gethsemane (John 13-17). I can see Peter evaluating this event as follows: “It was a waste of time for Jesus to wash our feet. Quite frankly, that time could have been better spent in fellowship.”

Jesus had an outcome in mind. To whit: that the disciples would learn demonstrate love for one another through humble service. To move them toward this outcome, Jesus chose to demonstrate humility and be an example that they should follow, which he explained in John 13:15. Peter didn’t know Jesus’ intention, but thought he knew better. In fact, even after Jesus explained to Peter that he would understand later (vs 7), Peter categorically told Jesus, “You shall never wash my feet” (vs 8). Peter had already made up his mind on this one.

Here’s a closing question to my students: Are you too much like Peter when you walk into the classroom? In other words, do you quickly evaluate the value of an assignment (whether that be related to the content or the type of assignment) without understanding the big picture? If the answer is yes, then you are not getting the most value you can get from your investment in an education.

Based on seeing this type of scenario many times, my suggestion is to slow down. Before becoming critical about this or that type of assignment, go through the process. The outcome or results will likely be better than you anticipated.

Proverbs 25:4

Take away the dross from the silver,
 and the smith has material for a vessel;

Proverbs 25:4 ESV

We can let this verse shape our hearts in a helpful and God-glorifying way: “Lord, please remove the dross from my heart. Sanctify me and make me useful for your purposes.”

Proverbs 23:17

Note the contrast between envy/jealousy and fear of the Lord in this proverb. “Let not your heart envy sinners, but continue in the fear of the Lord all the day” (Proverbs 23:17 ESV).

This verse is a gut punch in the battle between the seen and unseen. For our envy (or jealousy) is driven by that which we perceive about others, whether it be their status or possessions or whatever. “I sure wish I had their [fill in the blank].” Or “I’m more deserving of [fill in the blank] than they are.” Why do sinners seemingly get all the good stuff? Admittedly, it is hard at times, to see others apparently prosper in whatever way we may define prosper, especially if we are walking in godliness and seemingly not prospering.

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. For by it the people of old received their commendation. (Hebrews 11:1-2 ESV)

Hebrews 11 addresses this challenge in a helpful way as the writer reviews the stories of some of the great saints of the Old Testament, who walked by faith, yet seemingly didn’t receive their promise. In fact, their heavenly (or eternal) reward is greater; they traded the lesser for the better. And this, is exactly what Proverbs 23:17 encourages us to do, as well.

Lord, help me to cling to you in faith, keeping my heart focused toward the better, which “neither moth nor rust destroys” nor what thieves can break in and steal (Matthew 6:20).

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