The Effect of Time


A Matter of Survival?

Dr. Wendy Chavkin offers her memories of Dr. Tiller in a New York Daily News opinion piece. Clearly, she is trying to paint her colleague, the good doctor who claimed to have performed some 60,000 abortions, as a saint. However, in her efforts to canonize the good qualities of Dr. Tiller, she actually gives us an insider’s view of the motivation of one of the leaders in the industry.

Here’s one interesting quote:

He resolved to care for the patients who turned to him for help, just as his father had. And as he did, George learned firsthand of the urgency and complexity of his patients’ predicaments, which fueled his determination to keep going. He said, “The women in my father’s practice for whom he did abortions educated me and taught me that abortion is about women’s hopes, dreams, potential, the rest of their lives. Abortion is a matter of survival (emphasis added).”

There it is in Dr. Tiller’s words: “. . . abortion is about women’s hopes, dreams, potential, the rest of their lives.” After all, an unwanted pregnancy might change a woman’s hopes, dreams and potential. In fact, it might change the rest of their lives. You think so? However, none of those things are really about survival; they are about S. E. L. F.

And the above quote puts the lie to the Pro-Choice mantra regarding women’s health. It’s overwhelmingly NOT about women’s health; it’s about S. E. L. F.

“That’s just one doctor’s opinion,” you say. According to a 2006 New England Journal of Medicine article that is very sympathetic toward abortion and abortion providers, “nationwide [in the USA] about 1 in 14 abortions is sought for health reasons.” That’s 7.142%! And that percentage is divided between the mother’s and the child’s health concerns, which includes birth defects like Spina Bifida, Down’s Syndrome, malformed limbs, etc. All of these are overwhelming challenges, no doubt, but I personally know wonderful people who live with those challenges and have productive lives.

If the NEJM statistics hold true in Dr. Tiller’s case, then he killed 55,715 babies because they might affect “women’s hopes, dreams, potential, the rest of their lives.”

Why isn’t this same logic extended to include thieves or drunk drivers or child molestors? They all affect men’s and “women’s hopes, dreams, potential, the rest of their lives.”

Folks, it’s not about women’s health, it’s about S. E. L. F. Why can’t we admit that? The answer is simple: because we don’t want to admit the level of brutality our selfishness can produce. It’s easier to face the barbaric nature of abortion if we convince ourselves it’s about health.

Controversial Thoughts

I’m trying to work through the whole Dr. Tiller assassination. My thoughts are all over the place.

However, I can say this: I hope all the discussion regarding Dr. Tiller’s death will bring more to the forefront the horror that is nicely packaged as “a woman’s choice.” In other words, the 1,000,000s of deaths performed by the hands of Dr. Tiller and those like him should not be forgotten simply because he was gunned down.

I fear that many in the “pro-life” camp don’t take very seriously the horror that is abortion. I’m certain that those in the “pro-choice” camp don’t take seriously the brutal deaths of the not-yet born.

I Hate . . .

Folding fitted sheets. In fact, I can’t do it. The best I can do is sort of roll them up into a semi-square.

What would be wrong with having just a little bit larger flat sheets that could be tucked under the mattress? Then I could fold them without any trouble.

I’m open to fitted sheet folding tips. Anyone?

I Can Do All Things Through Christ . . .

Philippians 4:11-13 NIV

I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.

Philippians 4:13 is the favorite verse of many athletes, and usually it’s used incorrectly. In other words, it is used as a mantra to push the athlete to endure hard training so that he or she can win.

However, the meaning of “I can do everything through him who gives me strength” is not “with God’s help, I can win any contest or pass any exam.” It’s meaning, in context, is very simple: in whatever circumstance I may find myself (i.e., win or lose), by God’s grace I can be content. Why? Because Christ is the source of my strength. Anything I succeed at is because He strengthened me. Any hardship I may endure is the result of the strength He has provided. Notice who gets the credit (again!) for winning the big event or enduring incredible hardship: Jesus not Paul!

This understanding seems obvious by Paul’s use of contrasts to lead up to the “I can do all things . . .” statement: need and plenty, well fed and hungry, in plenty and in want. He doesn’t present one condition as better than it’s opposite because either circumstance requires strength, which is provided by Jesus.

The assistant general manager of a particular MLB team told me this story: He was scouting a pitcher that his team was interested in acquiring, but had great reservations about the pitcher’s commitment to winning because of his well publicized faith in Jesus. When I asked for clarification, the scout told me that it appears that this pitcher is so dedicated to his faith that when he loses it doesn’t bother him.

In fact, the scout told me that he made a formal complaint to the head of “Baseball Chapel” (most MLB teams have a Christian chaplain that, to some degree, serves as a pastor to the Christian players on the team) about this particular pitcher’s “misunderstanding of the Christian faith.” “Being a Christian doesn’t have to mean that you don’t care if you win or lose,” he added with emphasis. The irony of this statement is that this scout wasn’t a Christian, but he had great conviction about what the Christian life should or shouldn’t be.

A couple of years later, I had the opportunity to revisit this story with the pitcher in question. His response was interesting: “I don’t know who that guy is, but my record should speak for itself in terms of whether I have a drive to win. That should be more important than whether I kick over trash cans, break water coolers or am a mess in the locker room after a loss or bad outing.”

The pitcher was right: His record does speak for itself. He admits that he isn’t a theologian, but he was biblically accurate when he added, “I don’t enjoy losing because I play to win, but life is bigger than the loss of a baseball game.” And in this respect, he had learned to “do everything through Him who gives [him] strength.”